Ten Signs You Should Run for Your Life
The Bully
This is the man who sits you down, grabs your arm, pulls your hair, or
pokes your chest. While most of us know better than to let ourselves get socked
in the mouth the way Ralph Kramden was always threatening to do to Alice (but
even then never following through), there's a whole universe of more "minor"
infractions in the violence department that should disqualify your new beau
instantaneously (but all too often does not).
From the June 2003 issue of O, The Oprah Magazine