Suzanne and John Taylor live in Manhattan. John, 41, teaches middle school science and Suzanne, 40, works in marketing for Broadway shows.
She says: John and I act as two ends of the seesaw and try to keep it balanced no matter what happens: If one screws up, the other says, "Things will get better"; if one is having a fabulous day, the other is there to celebrate.
He says: You have to be willing to listen, give support, and make each other feel better. A lot of it is learning how to really open yourself to another person, and that takes a while.