If you want your partner to know your body better, Dr. Berman says you have to know how to guide him! The second homework assignment that Dr. Berman suggests is for women only. Take a hand-held mirror and look at all the different parts of your vulva.

"You have to take your pleasure into your own hands. If you want to get pleasure from your sex life, you have to know how your body works," Dr. Berman says. "If you're not comfortable with your vulva, you can't expect him to be."

Get to know your body! Dr. Berman explains the female anatomy.

Dr. Berman's complete guide to spicing up your sex life!