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6 Tips for Dealing with Difficult (Even Impossible) People

In case you're wondering how to play well with others, we have a few ideas.
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What's Code For "Mind Your Own Business?"
Dorothea Johnson is the founder of The Protocol School of Washington, and actress Liv Tyler is her granddaughter. They are the authors of Modern Manners: Tools to Take You to the Top.

Liv: Say, "Thank you for trying to help, but I'm not comfortable talking about that right now." Often you can shut someone down by mentioning your feelings.

Dorothea: Offering thanks is diplomatic. Kill 'em with kindness!

Liv: Even if something really offends you, ask yourself whether it contains some truth worth exploring later.

Dorothea: And don't get argumentative about unsolicited advice. Take the high road. The low road is so crowded.
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From the November 2013 issue of O, The Oprah Magazine
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