"Facing Love Addiction" and "Facing Codependence," by Pia Mellody

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Facing Love Addiction and Facing Codependence, by Pia Mellody
"I'm obsessed with Pia Mellody for recovery, specifically around codependence recovery and love addiction recovery," Alanis says. "Facing Love Addiction and Facing Codependence are two classics to me. She really describes intimacy—something I'm terrified of. She describes how to do it and stay alive."