Are You Helping or Enabling?

Name: Are You Helping or Enabling?
Uploaded: 2026-09-05T19:00:00-0500
Duration: P0Y0M0W0DT3H14M0S
Description: There’s a difference between helping someone and truly supporting them. Iyanla explains how enabling can disguise itself as love—and why loving someone sometimes means telling them the truth, setting a firm boundary and refusing to participate in behavior that’s hurting them. As she puts it, sometimes you have to love someone enough to say “no.”

Season 1 Episode 11
Aired on 09/05/2026 | CC

There’s a difference between helping someone and truly supporting them. Iyanla explains how enabling can disguise itself as love—and why loving someone sometimes means telling them the truth, setting a firm boundary and refusing to participate in behavior that’s hurting them. As she puts it, sometimes you have to love someone enough to say “no.”