To try to make sense of her husband's extramarital affair and betrayal, Elizabeth Edwards
says she asked him how it started. By his account, the affair began with just four words, "You are so hot." In her book Resilience
, Elizabeth says she would have wagered her home on the fact that John, her husband of 28 years at the time, would never have responded to this sort of come-on. More from Oprah's one-on-one conversation with Elizabeth.