According to Iyanla Vanzant, "relationships are the playing field of life." She says NFL player Terrell Owens is currently "a man down on every single field of his life"—financially, emotionally and spiritually. To help him rebuild, Iyanla meets him first thing in the morning on his own turf at his high school football field in Alexander City, Alabama. To show him the responsibility he needs to take, Iyanla throws flags on the field representing the various penalties he is currently facing. Watch what happens during this healing exercise.