Kevin agrees that abusing is an addiction. "I think it's a form of mental illness to commit any form of violence against a female or a male," he says. "I think we've got to strive for a society that's rooted in nonviolence."
The first step? "Having the courage to own your mistakes," he says. "That's something I had to do."
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That doesn't only apply to men who've abused in the past—Kevin says every man must step up if they see the men around them engaging in abusive behavior. "Your silence is agreement and participation," Kevin says.