The old thinking: Feeding the rumor mill is a sign of insecurity.
The new wisdom: Gossiping can solidify friendships and strengthen your moral
compass—so long as you're judicious about what you say and whom you say
it to (dishing about Tiger Woods's latest mistress with your best
friend: yes; spreading false rumors about your boss to half the office:
no). Sharing juicy information with friends strengthens social bonds,
and experts say gossip also informs us about what is acceptable and