When you're caring for someone, practicing self-awareness and self-care can help you maintain your boundaries; this, in turn, allows you to be fully compassionate without being consumed by the other person's pain. Consider:
  • Mindfulness meditation—it's been shown to decrease depression and anxiety while boosting empathy. [Try Sharon Salzberg's audio meditations]
  • Keeping a journal. Research suggests that reflective writing helps prevent compassion fatigue.
  • A daily act of self-centering: Set an alarm for noon and take four deep breaths; or when you wash your hands, sink into the experience, feeling the sensation of the water on your skin while noting, "I am worthy of my own time."
  • Staying connected to the outside world with at least a phone call every day. Better yet, get outside, even just to take a walk.
  • And don't be afraid to ask for help.

As a reminder, always consult your doctor for medical advice and treatment before starting any program.


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