How to Overcome Your Feelings of Hopelessness
To get started, take a moment to review the litany of thoughts constantly running through your head. Do you think any of the following statements:
- Why bother? Nothing will work out.
- I'll never be happy.
- My relationship can never get better.
- I'll never be able to get what I want.
- There's no use in trying.
- There aren't any good men (women) left.
- I'm too old (ugly, poor, boring, damaged, etc.)
- I can't compete.
- I'm cursed. The world is against me.
While writing Beat the Blues Before They Beat You, I realized the single most important issue to address for someone who is depressed is her feeling of hopelessness. If you are absolutely convinced that life is hopeless, then you won't do anything to help yourself. But no matter how hopeless it seems, there are things you can do—right now—that can help you find a way out.
First: Doubt your hopelessness