5 Things Sexperts Tell All Their Clients
The importance of a give-and-take relationship, spelling out your fantasies and more.
By Natalie Serber
If You Need to Be Ready in Five
"This is drawn from an ancient Taoist technique: Rest your awareness gently on your clitoris. Breathe slowly. Imagine you're breathing through your vagina. Suddenly, that area will become alive—you'll feel a spark and a stirring that will grow until you feel strongly aroused." —Brandy Engler, L.A. sex therapist and author of The Women on My Couch
From the October 2015 issue of O, The Oprah Magazine