Choosing the Right Man: What Happily Married Women Know
Janice and Stanley Weintraub
Ages: Both 62
Years married: 35
Occupations: Part-time dental hygienist; Realtor
How did you know he was the one? I believed in him. He didn't have a job, he wasn't a college grad and I was, but I saw his potential. I saw that he was loving, caring, and very interested in me. He had all the traits to be a good husband and father. He was a good salesman—he sold me!
What's made it last? Having a sense of humor. He taught me that, too, though I am still not a hundred percent there yet.
Advice? Choose your battles and understand that as you change, your mate also changes. You have to involve yourself in different activities and hobbies so you don't become boring, and you have to realize that you don't marry one person—you marry the entire family.