When talking to a friend you think might be abused, there are several key things to keep in mind:
  • Listen to what she has to say, and don't be judgmental.
  • Let her know you are there for her whenever she needs to talk and that you are worried about her.
  • Let her know that you won't tell anyone she doesn't want you to about her situation—and then keep your word (unless you fear for her physical safety).
  • Be specific about why you are concerned—"I felt bad when I saw him insult you in front of all of us. He doesn't have the right to treat you that way. What did you think about it?"
  • Let your friend know you won't stand by and let the behavior continue.
  • Find someone knowledgeable about abuse that she can talk to, and volunteer to go with her.
© Liz Claiborne Inc.'s Love Is Not Abuse campaign,


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