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What to Do When People Tear You Down

Spiritual author Eckhart Tolle has written that it's important to be "conscious of being conscious." To understand what that feels like, Eckhart says, you must experience it. Watch as he describes a way to discover this true inner peace even when people try to tear you down.

Plus, watch the additional videos for more advice on holding your center in the face of pain and adversity, featuring clips from Deepak Chopra, Jack Kornfield and other spiritual luminaries.
Published 05/21/2015
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