Iyanla Vanzant: Don't Make Someone Else's Crazy About You

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Iyanla says her grandmother was "meaner than a wet cat." As a little girl, she made that meanness all about her—and it made her feel like she didn't matter.

In this video, Iyanla explains how we all tend to make other people's issues about us. Hear why we're telling ourselves the wrong story.