Pastor A.R. Bernard Reveals Why Peace Is So Difficult to Achieve

Season 8 Episode 802
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In his book Four Things Women Want from a Man, Pastor A.R. Bernard drew from a lifetime of lessons—gained over the course of his 45-year marriage as well as his decadeslong ministry at New York City's Christian Cultural Center—to deliver his message on the qualities men should cultivate in order to have healthy, peaceful relationships. As Pastor Bernard sees it, unconditional love is essential to achieving peace, both in relationships and in society, pointing out that many "people are not willing to let go of their own self-interest."

Here, Pastor Bernard shares how his marriage taught him about the true nature of unconditional love.

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