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Iyanla Vanzant and Oprah: "You Alone Are Enough"

Aired on 05/05/1999 | CC tv-pg
At 18 years old, Oprah Show guest Leilei had recently ended a relationship that left her feeling lost and confused. She said her ex would criticize the way she dressed, how much makeup she wore, even the friends in her life. The relationship left her feeling like she was "just a shadow."

Leilei told Oprah and spiritual life coach Iyanla Vanzant that she learned that her ex couldn't be everything for her. But Oprah and Iyanla said it was more than that and offered her these powerful words: "You alone are enough." Watch as they emphasize how important it is to understand this fundamental concept.

Original airdate: May 5, 1999
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