Iyanla's House of Healing: Meet the Men
Meet the six African-American men participating in Iyanla's House of Healing. They're struggling with their identities and feel criminalized, dehumanized and victimized by society.
Clarence, 38
Has been in and out of jail since age 17
His struggle: Laying the groundwork for a better life
"[Being incarcerated] became, like, a repetitive cycle. I used to think everything was against me as a black man. It did create a lot of anger inside of me."
His struggle: Laying the groundwork for a better life
"[Being incarcerated] became, like, a repetitive cycle. I used to think everything was against me as a black man. It did create a lot of anger inside of me."
Michael, 44
"Mike Bass," founding member of Boyz II Men
His struggle: Abandonment
"If I had to sum up what I got from my brothers in Boyz II Men, I would have to say betrayal, a broken bond. I mean, at this point, we don't even talk."
His struggle: Abandonment
"If I had to sum up what I got from my brothers in Boyz II Men, I would have to say betrayal, a broken bond. I mean, at this point, we don't even talk."
Kevin, 30
Father of 2; singer/songwriter
His struggle: Expressing his anger constructively
"Violence is kind of normal to me because probably before middle school, I had probably 40 fights. One day ... I got suspended. I walked home. I was like, 'Dad, I got in a fight.' He was fixing to whoop me, and he said, 'Well, did you win?' I was like, 'Yeah.' He was like, 'Good job.'"
His struggle: Expressing his anger constructively
"Violence is kind of normal to me because probably before middle school, I had probably 40 fights. One day ... I got suspended. I walked home. I was like, 'Dad, I got in a fight.' He was fixing to whoop me, and he said, 'Well, did you win?' I was like, 'Yeah.' He was like, 'Good job.'"
Michael, 46
Musician; previously featured on "House of Healing: The Myth of the Angry Black Woman"
His struggle: Feeling out of place in his own skin and culture
"I am affected by how people think about me."
Watch: Michael addresses why women find him "weird"
His struggle: Feeling out of place in his own skin and culture
"I am affected by how people think about me."
Watch: Michael addresses why women find him "weird"
Tyrone, 29
Habitual cheater; previously featured on "House of Healing: The Myth of the Angry Black Woman"
His struggle: Overcoming immature, destructive patterns
"Being a player, being that dude, being a tough guy—those days are over. Now, I need some healing, you know? I want to have kids; I want to have a family. People mess up."
Watch: Tyrone and past House of Healing guest Rita have a heated discussion about black men not dating black women
His struggle: Overcoming immature, destructive patterns
"Being a player, being that dude, being a tough guy—those days are over. Now, I need some healing, you know? I want to have kids; I want to have a family. People mess up."
Watch: Tyrone and past House of Healing guest Rita have a heated discussion about black men not dating black women
Terrance, 39
Estranged father of Lira Galore
His struggle: Mending his broken relationship with his daughter
"My current relationship with my daughter right now, if I have to be honest, is pretty much nonexistent."
Watch: Lira opens up about her father's abandonment
The three-part episode "House of Healing: Fix a Black Man's Heart" airs Saturdays at 9/8c from October 29 through November 12.
His struggle: Mending his broken relationship with his daughter
"My current relationship with my daughter right now, if I have to be honest, is pretty much nonexistent."
Watch: Lira opens up about her father's abandonment
The three-part episode "House of Healing: Fix a Black Man's Heart" airs Saturdays at 9/8c from October 29 through November 12.
Published 10/24/2016