How (Not) to Make Over Your Husband
It's not that I didn't trust my wife to do these things; we just weren't used to having to think about it. Now we have to plan ahead.
Guys like things to be convenient, and you have to appeal to his sense of fairness when divvying up the errands. Ask him to make the trips that make sense because they're on his way home, close to his office, etc., instead of just saying "it's your turn." And always pitch an errand as a chance to get out of the house.
Who's in charge of the kids?