Bonding Through Baking: A Community Connects Over Dorie Greenspan's Cookbook
By the time Woodward started Tuesdays, food blogs were serious business. Julie Powell's Julie & Julia, a memoir about a young New Yorker blogging her way through Julia Child's Mastering the Art of French Cooking, had already been optioned for film. Woodward herself had no such large ambitions. But she opened up the group to anyone interested, and as the TWDers (as they call themselves) baked quintuple-chocolate brownies and Russian grandmother's apple pie-cake, relationships began to form; they became one another's teachers, support systems, travel advisers, and confidantes. These bonds weren't forged by a shared table but through an ongoing online dialogue on fellow bakers' blogs and the TWD message board. The conversation was about baking. But on a deeper level, it was about being present, helpful, and generous with one's time.
"I used to think, 'Online friendships?'" says Nancy Ewing, a 54-year-old former lawyer from Atlanta and TWDer since 2008. "'What's wrong? Do you not have real friends?' But it turns out that they are real friends. Real people." As Ewing bonded with the other members, she wanted to meet them wherever she could—day-tripping to Birmingham, Alabama, to lunch with a fellow TWDer, dining with another in the Netherlands, and traveling to Connecticut to eat at the home of Mary Dodd, 36, who hosted a dinner last fall for Greenspan and "a bunch of women I'd never met from all over the country," Dodd says. "My husband said, 'Aren't you scared to have strangers in our house?' And I said, 'No, we've been cooking together for years.'"
Greenspan's baking books, including volumes written with Child and the French dessert kingpin Pierre Hermé, have taught millions to turn butter, flour, and sugar into spectacular, smile-inducing treats. But it's her accessible recipes and warm, personal writing style that draws people in. "When Laurie first asked me about creating the group, I was thrilled," says Greenspan, who now regularly meets TWDers from all over the country on her book tours. She also delights in the way group members have altered her recipes to better fit their needs. "I love when someone says, 'Raisins, no! Cinnamon, nope! Instead, I'll do ginger,'" she says. "'For my family, for my friends, that will work better.'" She remembers her online kin making several adjustments to a traditional apple tartlet. "Somebody made them teensy-tiny. Somebody else made a long rectangle with caramel sauce."
Get the recipe for Joel Brown's blueberry yogurt cupcakes, which was adapted from one of Greenspan's recipes
With the release of Greenspan's latest volume, Around My French Table, last October, Woodward called Greenspan again. "One of the comments I'd seen on the TWD site was that people had too many baked goods around," says Woodward. "So I thought, 'I'll start a new group. A cooking group.'" In three months, French Fridays with Dorie attracted 1,500 members, who choose the week's recipe by vote and post results to their blogs each Friday (TWDers take turns picking recipes; some members have waited two years). "When it was my week to pick the recipe," says Dodd, who belongs to both groups, "I went a little insane and wrote this whole manifesto. I said, 'It's not about Tuesdays and it's not about Dorie. It's about all of us, all around the world, baking for our families and friends and learning something new. Though if Dorie published 50 Ways to Read the Phone Book, I'd join that group as well." Brown, who cooks along with French Fridays, calls the group "much more meaningful" than Facebook.
The icing on the cake, of course, is that thousands of amateur bakers and cooks can now throw together complicated recipes in their sleep. "Before TWD, my baking level was box mix," Dodd says. "I can now make caramel sauce with my eyes closed in a snowstorm." And the payoff isn't limited to food. Tracey Wilhelmsen, a 32-year-old from Rhode Island, gets 15,000 hits a week on the blog she started to join TWD. "I make some money off ads," she says. "And I'm not the only one." Woodward is already thinking about debuting a third Dorie group in 2012.
Greenspan knows her groups have transcended baking and cooking. "The confidence people pick up in the kitchen changes the way they do other things," she says. "I know I didn't write The Last Lecture or a series of self-help books. But who would have predicted? Two cookbooks would build community like this on the Internet? Two cookbooks would change lives?"
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