A Stress-Free Dinner Party: Your Mix-and-Match Menu
What's the easiest way to throw a fabulous dinner party? Provide the ingredients and get your guests to do the work.

Photo: Ditte Isager
The Ultimate Salad Bar
You don't need to serve a five-course meal when you entertain. Instead, borrow the concept from choose-your-own-salad spots like Washington, D.C.–based Sweetgreen. "The secret to a satisfying salad is balance," says Nicolas Jammet, cofounder of Sweetgreen. "For example, combine an interesting protein, like spicy shrimp, and a crunchy topping, like crushed tortilla chips, with avocado and lettuce for a 'guacamole' salad." To serve eight, you'll need about two pounds of greens and two cups each of the other ingredients you offer.
Lettuce: Chopped romaine, mesclun, mizuna, arugula, Bibb
Vegetables and Fruit: Asparagus, snap peas, green beans, red onion, shallots, beets, radishes, corn, bell pepper, carrots, avocado, grape tomatoes, broccoli, basil, mint, cilantro, apple, grapefruit, grapes, watermelon, balsamic strawberries
Grains and Beans: Quinoa, chickpeas, black beans, shelled edamame
Cheese: Feta, goat cheese, Cheddar, Parmesan
Meat and Protein: Spicy shrimp, baked falafel, roasted portobello mushrooms, roasted chicken, hard-boiled egg
Crunch: Roughly crushed tortilla chips, pita chips, and crackers; wasabi peas; roasted nuts, like almonds, walnuts, and macadamia; seeds, like pumpkin and sunflower; toasted whole spices, like cumin, coriander, and fennel
Ginger-Scallion Vinaigrette Recipe
Lime-Cilantro Dressing Recipe
Balsamic Yogurt Dressing Recipe
Miso Dressing Recipe
Fruit and Goat Cheese
Bibb + balsamic strawberries + basil + shallots + goat cheese + roasted almonds + balsamic yogurt dressing
Guacamole Salad
Mesclun + avocado chunks + grape tomatoes + red onion + cilantro + spicy shrimp + crushed tortilla chips + lime-cilantro dressing
Apple-Ginger
Bibb + apple + asparagus + green beans + quinoa + goat cheese + roasted portobellos + crushed crackers + ginger-scallion vinaigrette
Asian
Chopped romaine + cilantro + shallots + edamame + carrots + spicy shrimp + wasabi peas + miso dressing
Broccoli-Cheese
Arugula + roasted broccoli + basil + shaved white Cheddar + roasted portobello mushrooms + macadamia nuts + balsamic yogurt dressing
Southwestern
Romaine + grape tomatoes + sweet corn + shaved strips of sharp cheddar + black beans + tortilla chips + lime-cilantro vinaigrette
Shrimp and Feta
Mizuna + carrots + radishes + red onion + Feta + spicy shrimp + ginger-scallion vinaigrette
Next: Build customized cookies
Step 1: Shop for your choice of greens and add-ins.
Lettuce: Chopped romaine, mesclun, mizuna, arugula, Bibb
Vegetables and Fruit: Asparagus, snap peas, green beans, red onion, shallots, beets, radishes, corn, bell pepper, carrots, avocado, grape tomatoes, broccoli, basil, mint, cilantro, apple, grapefruit, grapes, watermelon, balsamic strawberries
Grains and Beans: Quinoa, chickpeas, black beans, shelled edamame
Cheese: Feta, goat cheese, Cheddar, Parmesan
Meat and Protein: Spicy shrimp, baked falafel, roasted portobello mushrooms, roasted chicken, hard-boiled egg
Crunch: Roughly crushed tortilla chips, pita chips, and crackers; wasabi peas; roasted nuts, like almonds, walnuts, and macadamia; seeds, like pumpkin and sunflower; toasted whole spices, like cumin, coriander, and fennel
Step 2: Make dressings.
Ginger-Scallion Vinaigrette Recipe
Lime-Cilantro Dressing Recipe
Balsamic Yogurt Dressing Recipe
Miso Dressing Recipe
Master Mixes
Fruit and Goat Cheese
Bibb + balsamic strawberries + basil + shallots + goat cheese + roasted almonds + balsamic yogurt dressing
Guacamole Salad
Mesclun + avocado chunks + grape tomatoes + red onion + cilantro + spicy shrimp + crushed tortilla chips + lime-cilantro dressing
Apple-Ginger
Bibb + apple + asparagus + green beans + quinoa + goat cheese + roasted portobellos + crushed crackers + ginger-scallion vinaigrette
Asian
Chopped romaine + cilantro + shallots + edamame + carrots + spicy shrimp + wasabi peas + miso dressing
Broccoli-Cheese
Arugula + roasted broccoli + basil + shaved white Cheddar + roasted portobello mushrooms + macadamia nuts + balsamic yogurt dressing
Southwestern
Romaine + grape tomatoes + sweet corn + shaved strips of sharp cheddar + black beans + tortilla chips + lime-cilantro vinaigrette
Shrimp and Feta
Mizuna + carrots + radishes + red onion + Feta + spicy shrimp + ginger-scallion vinaigrette
Next: Build customized cookies

Photo: Ditte Isager
Custom Cookies
At Tina Casaceli's Milk & Cookies Bakery in New York City, customers can design their own flavors—say, marshmallow-macadamia cookies, which are then baked fresh on the spot. Here, Casaceli shares a dough recipe from her cookbook, Milk & Cookies. Prep the dough before the party, then use it as the base for the combinations she suggests, or anything you and your friends can imagine.
Candy
Chocolate chips, white chocolate chips, milk or bittersweet chocolate chunks, caramel chips, M&M's, chocolate-covered pretzels, broken candy bars, toffee bits, marshmallows, peppermints
Nuts
Chopped macadamia nuts, pecans, sliced almonds, peanuts, and walnuts (or nut butters); coconut flakes
Fruits
Dried candied pineapple, dried papaya, dried blueberries, dried cranberries, dried cherries, candied ginger, golden raisins, dried apricots
Other
Cinnamon, cardamom, ginger, clove, sanding sugar, walnut or orange liqueur, coffee extract, peppermint extract, jam, citrus zest, almond paste, sea salt, cream cheese
Walnut
Walnut liqueur + walnuts
Ginger Snap
Ginger + cinnamon + clove
Mint Chocolate Chip
Peppermint extract + chocolate chips
Spice
Ginger + cloves + nutmeg + cardamom + cinnamon
Tropical
Papaya + coconut + macadamia nuts
Mocha
Coffee extract + milk chocolate
Chocolate-Caramel
Chocolate chips + caramel chips
Chocolate-Orange
Orange liqueur + grated orange zest + chocolate chunks + pecans
Macadamia
White chocolate chips + chopped macadamia nuts
Fruit and Nut
White chocolate chips + dried cherries + pecans
Candy Bar
Bittersweet chocolate chunks + toffee bits
Snickerdoodle
Cinnamon + sanding sugar + sliced almonds
Chocolate-Almond
Milk chocolate chunks + sliced almonds
Chocolate-Coconut
Chocolate chips + coconut flakes
Next: Design your own cocktails
Step 1: Make the oatmeal-vanilla cookie dough.
Step 2: Mix in flavorings.
Candy
Chocolate chips, white chocolate chips, milk or bittersweet chocolate chunks, caramel chips, M&M's, chocolate-covered pretzels, broken candy bars, toffee bits, marshmallows, peppermints
Nuts
Chopped macadamia nuts, pecans, sliced almonds, peanuts, and walnuts (or nut butters); coconut flakes
Fruits
Dried candied pineapple, dried papaya, dried blueberries, dried cranberries, dried cherries, candied ginger, golden raisins, dried apricots
Other
Cinnamon, cardamom, ginger, clove, sanding sugar, walnut or orange liqueur, coffee extract, peppermint extract, jam, citrus zest, almond paste, sea salt, cream cheese
Perfect Pairings
Walnut
Walnut liqueur + walnuts
Ginger Snap
Ginger + cinnamon + clove
Mint Chocolate Chip
Peppermint extract + chocolate chips
Spice
Ginger + cloves + nutmeg + cardamom + cinnamon
Tropical
Papaya + coconut + macadamia nuts
Mocha
Coffee extract + milk chocolate
Chocolate-Caramel
Chocolate chips + caramel chips
Chocolate-Orange
Orange liqueur + grated orange zest + chocolate chunks + pecans
Macadamia
White chocolate chips + chopped macadamia nuts
Fruit and Nut
White chocolate chips + dried cherries + pecans
Candy Bar
Bittersweet chocolate chunks + toffee bits
Snickerdoodle
Cinnamon + sanding sugar + sliced almonds
Chocolate-Almond
Milk chocolate chunks + sliced almonds
Chocolate-Coconut
Chocolate chips + coconut flakes
Next: Design your own cocktails

Photo: Ditte Isager
Designer Drinks
Mixologist Julie Reiner is known for creating inventive cocktails at bars like Lani Kai, her recently opened tropical-themed lounge in New York City. But at home, she'll set up a simple make-your-own cocktail station, complete with a variety of fruits: "That way, I don't have to play bartender all night." For the best results, Reiner recommends using one kind of fruit in each glass. To serve eight, you'll need six or seven cups of fruit total.
Mojitos Recipe
Fruity Tom Collins Recipe
As desired, peeled and diced (about ⅓ cup fruit per drink)
Raspberries
Strawberries
Blackberries
Blueberries
Pineapple
Kiwis
Oranges
Blood oranges
Mangos
Pears
Watermelon
Red grapes
Apples
Clementines
Peaches
Cherries (pitted)
Cantaloupe
More Simple Entertaining Ideas
Step 1: Prepare drink base.
Mojitos Recipe
Fruity Tom Collins Recipe
Step 2: Add fruit
As desired, peeled and diced (about ⅓ cup fruit per drink)
Raspberries
Strawberries
Blackberries
Blueberries
Pineapple
Kiwis
Oranges
Blood oranges
Mangos
Pears
Watermelon
Red grapes
Apples
Clementines
Peaches
Cherries (pitted)
Cantaloupe
More Simple Entertaining Ideas
From the May 2011 issue of O, The Oprah Magazine