Know the Night: A Memoir of Survival in the Small Hours
By Maria Mutch
224 pages;
Simon & Schuster
For two very long years, Maria Mutch's son Gabriel—who
suffers from both Down syndrome and autism—does not sleep at night.
Because she has another child, and a husband who has to wake up in the morning,
and has to support them both, Mutch and Gabriel hit the road, spending the dark
hours until dawn at jazz clubs, where the music calms Gabriel, at least for a
while (he falls into "shrieking
episodes" that last for whole days). Though Mutch's
tenderness for her son never wavers, she does confront her own loneliness and
isolation from the rest of world—as well as her
exhaustion—by reading the diaries of Richard Byrd, who journeyed solo
to Antarctica in the late 1920s, including a nine-month-long stint where he
never saw the sun rise. There are moments of heartrending grief, such as when Gabriel says his last
words—an eerily prescient "bye," at
age 6, and "all done," at
age 7. But it's Mutch herself, revealing her
struggle to survive as a person, that leaves you astonished, including a moment
after cleaning up her son when she admits, "I go to write I am
his mother except that what I write is I am his
other."
— Leigh Newman