Not for Everyday Use: A Memoir
By Elizabeth Nunez
256 pages;
Akashic Books
The Memoir That Reads Like a Novel
In this swiftly moving memoir, Elizabeth Nunez
returns to Trinidad after the death of her mother. While helping her sister and
father arrange the burial, Nunez reflects on everything from her admiration of
her parents' loving, 65-year-long marriage (and the failure of her own) and her
early, isolated years as an immigrant in New York, to the strange, unshakable
grip colonialism has on her homeland today. The book reads casually, with a
narrative that feels like a close friend talking about her past over tea. But
ready yourself for unexpected emotional wallops, such as in the scene where
Nunez finds her 93-year-old father rearranging all the pillows on his bed into
a wall, "building a barrier between his side of the bed and his
wife's" so as to keep himself from facing the empty place she's left
behind. An insightful, generous story about the most painful of losses.
— Leigh Newman