Despite their good intentions, Anette and Landon put their children at serious risk by hiring the stripper, Dr. Robin says. "What happened is that your kids and other people's children got violated," Dr. Robin says. "You know what was violated? Not just their minds, not just their bodies, but their spirits got violated that night."

Oprah agrees with Dr. Robin, adding that the couple's decision to hire a stripper can send mixed messages to their sons. "I know what you want—as a good person—are sons who are kind and respectful toward women," Oprah says. "To do that, you want to raise men to have relationships with women—not to feel that you can just go out and get yourself a stripper and have yourself a piece."