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How To Raise A Thinking Child

Dr. Myrna Shure — Raising a thinking child

Myrna ShurePsychologist Myrna Shure says children who are aware of their feelings are less likely to resort to violence and self-destruction. "Thinking children" are happier and act out less because they feel compassion and empathy.

Parents can learn a simple set of skills that teach children how to resolve conflicts and think for themselves, involving changing statements into questions for your child. Asking questions helps children become thinking, feeling human beings that don't want to hurt themselves or others. Parents can prevent their children from tuning out by having a dialogue with them rather than a monologue.

Her books

Raising a Thinking Child: Help Your Young Child to Resolve Everyday Conflicts and Get Along With Others: The 'I Can Problem Solve' Program
Raising a Thinking Preteen: The 'I Can Problem Solve' Program for 8-To 12- Year-Olds