The Oprah Winfrey Show
Why This Boy Was Raised As A Girl

Janet Reimer — David's Mother
JanetDavid's mother comments on making the fateful decision, and how it affected their lives.

"I think that I was very young and naive and ignorant."

"I think he never was never anything like a girl. He never was a girl. He was always my son."

"Lying and keeping secrets is a very hard thing to live with...I was very afraid that he'd hate me, but I thought it was better that he know the truth."

"All the talking about it has comforted me. And I'm learning to forgive myself."

Brian Reimer — David's Twin Brother
BrianBrian is David's identical twin brother. They no longer look anything alike because David's body has been ravaged by hormones and surgeries for so many years. "I just accepted him the way he was." He accepted Brenda as his sister even though he thought she never acted like a girl.

Jane Reimer — David's Wife
JaneDavid and Jane have been happily together for 12 years. David's past history to her "wasn't important."

"..it's doesn't matter what's between his legs. It doesn't make the person."

The Author
JohnJohn Colapinto, an award winning journalist, has followed David's story for years. He has put every fascinating and heartbreaking detail of David's life in his new book As Nature Made Him: The Boy Who Was Raised As A Girl. John says the most disturbing part of the story is the image of a child trying to let the public know who he really was, yet no one was listening. It's the famous nature/nurture argument. Back in the sixties, people believed that gender was learned. This case proves that gender is determined by a person's biological make-up.

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