or who have given up on love. Or who don't even believe in love because they've been hurt. How many women Colin today who've had very very negative experiences. And have closed their hearts as a -- we've tried to slowly you know -- -- rip those large open. We're trying to slowly draw them to make their -- like the aperture the camera let more light. Don't think those dark pictures like that the world need not be dark and sinister can be really really loving place. So here's York she -- -- of the day and I have always seen myself by the way as the EU. Missionary that lot of profits a little actually believes in spreading the stuff which is odd for child of divorce but that's what I've had to do in my own life. I witnessed a bad marriage and need to commit myself to a good marriage. Eyewitness two parents who fell out of love I had to ensure that I fell more deeply in love that I never take my wife for granted security it's. To look specifically. You need to love generally. The low one person

well you've been partially scarred by that experience so you're not as loving your -- little bit. You're a little bit fearful of of the world little fearful of people. You you're losing your sense