infidelity wait not so fast maybe there's another way think about it. Dan Savage -- sex advice column -- here to talk about his involvement in the New York Times magazine piece it was not a headline was. Married within Fidelity's and it seemed to imply that infidelity may not be so bad and Dan Dan Savage I sat there and I've read the article and I was screaming before -- art. I was like yeah now now. And

are men not the Mitch are are monogamist. What does it mean Dan Savage . Well and -- -- -- -- because I know I'm screwing it up what's the word monogamy issue. Yeah monogamous I'm not

venture within our coupled them not gained anything with other people so Dan Savage are you good and bad I don't know. It. Oh -- here are probably asleep in these other dramatic -- about but you're gonna. I'm teasing you didn't savage I was teasing you to listen I know you're good in everything you do I. I admire you very very much ever sense that it gets better project I think you're terrific. You can hear fielding every weekday on over radio check over dot com for -- times. Leave