people are able to maintain that that pattern for -- time. With alcohol abuse in particular I mean drugs as well but I think Al causing much more subtle because so many administering alcohol and our day to day lives glass -- -- here in marriage drinks whenever. That eight you know Lawrence social situations so it's much harder to distinguish and I think there's a much finer line. That Adam when you are a chronic. Regular. During her and you drink. You know a good bet when you do drink it really can easily. Progressed alcoholism maybe it's a response to a big stressful of that -- retirement or losing a job or maybe it gradually progresses. As the tolerance to alcohol increases but when alcohol progresses to alcoholism . Or alcohol abuse -- progresses alcoholism . It's called alcohol addiction or alcohol dependence. -- the alcohol becomes essential to the person's ability to function and said the alcoholic symptoms would include -- physical dependence on alcohol and inability to stop despite several physical or psychological. Or at social consequences. Some

almost non dollar may -- -- -- -- if there is an alcoholic in your family growing -- And the realization that there's something seriously wrong can be so painful to -- And so shaming and for so many of us the shame. And that an isolation and we feel as the ones who love the addicts. Can be so painful that will go into our own denial and I think this thing to remember and if there's any Macedonia giddy today is that you're certainly not alone because alcoholism and drug abuse. Affects millions of families. Every socioeconomic status every race every culture. But there is help and support to --