the morning chances they had gas that were talking about this topic. Friends with benefits and if you've been reading or watching you probably heard from. Now what I heard as well it's actually not a new phenomenon now you haven't heard that let me tell you what it. Friends with benefits is another way of saying friends that you have sex with friends that you were sexually. Intimate -- You call it friendship but two things that at least -- my friends we're not deal. So this new. Title label if you will for a very very old way of relating. It's called friends with benefits there was a study done in Michigan state university and you'll put a lot of information but the bottom line is best you talk to help people choosing. This way of relating because it kept them from having to deal with all the cumbersome -- of a real relationship. Well there's a downside to it. The other year that showed up. Was one in one of the people who just says we're friends but we're having sex . Starts feeling more than just friendship. That the Exxon helped create deeper intimacy deeper belongings deeper need for something more. The only problem. Your partner who was -- friends or hanging out with having fun and then having sex with doesn't feel the same way. So in the researcher talked about that one of the biggest fears. Is that someone will cross the line not the sexual line because that's already been crossed but the romantic line. The Internet line the line where I actually decide. That I want something more and then I'm looking EU. I share that with -- view and I see that empty void in your eyes that all I still -- to you. It's just a friend that you're having sex -- -- what's more. In common. With this study I think at least in the study doesn't talk about it but I seen in my practice I've. Watched it with friends I didn't you know everywhere that I -- that wind people the side. That they're going to cross that line of friendship. And intermingle. Sex with a they think it's gonna be uncomplicated. They say that it's easier than having a full blown relationship and it's actually

And such I'd dance a pain and often in this so called friends with benefits what you find. Is -- trying to distance -- whose partnering with a purr sewer and then you have to people who were friends who are now struggling. I want you to tune in and to stay with because at the end of the show when I talk in the heart of the matter. I'm gonna give you some tips about what you can do if you're struggling with this issue of friends with benefits . If you realize that it's actually not meeting your needs stay tuned and I'll be giving you something to follow. At the