I'm all for sleeveless—if you're comfortable with your arms, it's a refined way to show skin (think our First Lady). This dress (Shoshanna, $440), with its scooped-out armholes and lower waist, is ideal for short torsos. And a fluid fabric like silk is more inviting than something stiff. 

Clutch, Banana Republic. Shoes, Jimmy Choo.

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