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10 Lab-Tested Ways to Bring Out the Best in PeopleThe best of human nature—generosity, compassion, cooperation, selflessness—surfaced in these studies. Of course, the goal is to draw out a person's good side, not exploit it. Use your powers wisely.
By Jena Pincott
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Discovery #1: Inspire a Seat-of-the-Pants MomentWhen are people more generous: spontaneously or after stopping to think? To find out, Harvard researchers timed game players as they decided how much money to contribute to a pool that would be doubled and divvied up evenly (the more everyone chips in, the more they get). The result: Faster decisions are kinder. When (by force or choice) people took 10 seconds or less to decide, they contributed 15 percent more money to the common pot than those who took longer. Cooperation seems to be the first impulse (for most of us) before beady-eyed self-interest undermines it. The next time you're running a fundraising marathon, make a quick emotional appeal, then set a quick deadline for the donors. Related ResourcesKeep Reading
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The Beauty EquationDr. Kendra Schmid explains how scientists use a mathematical equation to measure facial perfection and beauty.
Modern Kindness: 9 Day-Brightening Stories of GenerosityFrom spare change to vital organs, these tales of everyday giving will put a smile on your face and inspire you to pay it forward.
A Course in Miracles, Lesson 135Oprah Radio host Marianne Williamson discusses Lesson 135 of A Course in Miracles.
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