As you are sitting, walking or doing dishes, take a moment to really become the other person. If that's hard to wrap your head around, pretend you're the other person; you feel what they feel, you see what they see, believe what they believe and experience life (not just think, really experience) as the other person. When you do this, you will notice what they need and want and what will encourage them to help you achieve your dreams. You will find their language of expression and be able to communicate in a way that's attractive to them. In fact, you can do this with someone you have never met or even someone you're trying to attract. Let me give you an example. If you are single, you might want to become the partner who is perfect for you. Don't "make up" the experience. Simply notice who you become when you become this person and really "get to know them." You may be shocked at how quickly this person walks into your life.
All of these exercises are simple and natural for your brain. Don't overcomplicate them. Try them and see the results.
How to Rule the World from Your Couch will help you use these abilities that you were born with to transform your life and give all that you have to the world around you.
On a final note, one thing intuition teaches us is that "do unto others" is just plain good sense. Once you do these exercises, you will realizes with clarity how connected to each other and the world around us we all are, even at a distance. If even one soul is in pain, we all suffer. One happy person with a complete life and goals fulfilled heals us all.
New York Times best-selling author Laura Day has spent three decades helping individuals, organizations and companies use their innate intuitive abilities to create profound change in their lives. Her new book is How to Rule the World from Your Couch (Simon & Schuster).