— Mallory C., Cambridge, Canada
When you start to look at the hidden energies in yourself—meaning old emotional debts and difficult feelings—the ego has to figure out what to do. The ego isn't the shadow. It's your sense of self. So if your sense of self relies on not looking under the carpet, it won't be happy when the shadow starts to emerge. It will say, "I don't like this. I don't need this. Stop it!" in a loud voice. What you are experiencing is normal.
At the same time, however, it's too much. Walking the path is supposed to be more positive than negative, no matter where you are on your journey. Let's try to make this a good experience for you and your dog. Stop trying so hard. Give yourself space to enjoy your life. Get out of the mind-set that you are facing an uphill climb and must work hard every step of the way. When you work so hard that you feel miserable, the shadow is winning.
Next: When making difficult life decisions, should you go with your heart or your head?
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