— Ann B., Apex, North Carolina
Welcome to the club. No one ever multitasks love. Love sucks all the oxygen out of the room. That's just how it is. Surrendering to another can be very blissful. If you had said you let a man take total control and it's hurting you—that would be serious. In this case, however, leave your pet projects at the door and surrender to the love that has come your way. Think of all the people who aren't lucky that way. You are.
If you still can't find yourself in six months, please ask me again.
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