Martha Beck: Yes, It Was Awful...Now Please Shut Up

Yes, It Was Awful—Now Please Shut Up

Poignant, tragic, funny, outrageous—most of us have at least one story we tell to explain our emotional bruises. But there's a big difference between understanding the past and being stuck in it.

By Martha Beck
O, The Oprah Magazine | From the July 2006 issue of O, The Oprah Magazine

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