Jesuit priest and author of the Oprah's latest book club pick Say You're One of Them (Little, Brown). I act most like myself... when I'm with my friends. I feel most like myself... when I'm in Ikot Akpan Eda, Nigeria, the village where I was born. See an interactive map of Africa I feel least like myself... when I'm angry. Keep Reading: Akpan reveals how inspiration works in mysterious waysNext: Where Anne Lamott feels most like herself