Each week, spiritual teacher Deepak Chopra responds to Oprah.com users' questions with enlightening advice to help them live their best lives.
Q: First off, I just wanted to say how much I enjoy reading your books. They are wonderful. I also wanted to ask you some questions: How does a person start living from spirit? How does a person start practicing a new way of living and start being free and doing what they want to do?
— Allahna B., age 18, Cincinnati, Ohio
It's inspiring for me to receive such a question from a young person, and I will tailor my answer to your age group. Living from spirit isn't the same at every stage of life. But every stage has one thing in common: being natural. What comes most naturally is the first clue to the path that is right for you, because at every stage of life there is a new phase of inner development. In India, there were four traditional stages, known as Ashramas, which correspond to childhood, student years, raising a family and going into spiritual retreat. Modern life isn't so cut-and-dried, and few people would want it to be. Yet as free as we like to live, there are natural stages of life and activities that suit each one:
By positive, I don't mean simply optimistic and cheerful. Truly positive people are kind, generous, unassuming and oriented to solutions rather than complaining about problems. They give others their own space and don't try to bully or put anyone down. You are at a good age for beginning to give of yourself. Make time for the less fortunate and for those in need. Finally, bond with at least one adult you trust and want to confide in. Associating only with your own age group can be stifling.
I realize that I haven't used the word spiritual in my answer, but if you follow the natural development of your own self, that will turn out to be a spiritual path in its own right. As for the future, spirit will have new things to say as the years unfold.
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Deepak Chopra is the author of more than 50 books on health, success, relationships and spirituality, including his current best-seller, Reinventing the Body, Resurrecting the Soul, and The Ultimate Happiness Prescription, which are available now. You can listen to his show on Saturdays every week on SiriusXM Channels 102 and 155.
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Published on April 07, 2010