Ilene represents the somewhat bipolar face of the current economic situation: Most of us have felt the sting of lower housing and investment values, but, at the same time, there seems to be something hopeful and cleansing as well. The trick, when your well-being is concerned, is to learn how to weather economic hardship by appreciating your true psychological wealth.
When we talk about "psychological wealth," we mean your true net worth. Your quality of life is determined by much more than just your financial bottom line; it is also made up of your health, social relationships, spirituality, attitude and meaningful activities. The problem is most people have a habit of focusing on their pocketbook while overlooking their other social and psychological resources.
One of the ways that an economic recession takes a mental toll on us is that we focus our attention on a single issue...in this case, money woes. Researchers call this the "focusing illusion," which is our tendency to narrowly focus attention on unique aspects of a circumstance. Football fans, for example, tend to overestimate how much a win or a loss will affect their future happiness because they focus on the sporting contest while overlooking work, health, relationships and the bevy of other factors that affect daily well-being. In the same way, you are more likely to mentally weigh the effects of money troubles while overlooking your great friends, personal values and other rewarding aspects of life.