Expert Advice
Kim Izzo, etiquette columnist: I think it's a natural assumption to make that whoever makes the invitation should pay.

Ceri Marsh, etiquette columnist: I agree. On a first date you can also make a gesture: "Can I get the tip?" The next time, you can treat and keep an even playing field.

Harriette Cole, syndicated columnist: I'm still old school. On the first date, I want him to pay. It's romantic. We make enough sacrifices later on in a relationship—he can pay for dinner!