Want to watch erotica with your partner, but don't know how to bring it up? If you're at a loss for words, try one of these scripts from Dr. Berman:

Let's spice things up tonight by watching a naughty movie. I think it might be fun.

Let's spice things up tonight by watching a naughty movie. It turns me on so much I can't keep my hands off you!

Then, take a moment to reflect on how this new communication affected your relationship. Was your partner responsive? Did sparks fly? You might be surprised!

Use the space below to journal about your sexual experience. You can come back to this workbook at any time to change or add to your answers.