"Do not tell a man what you like," he says. "All you're doing is giving a guy a road map to your heart. For the next 45 days, that's all you're going to get. You like flowers? Here they come. You like chocolate? Here they come."
Instead, Steve suggests a more subtle way of communicating what you want from a man. "Share with a man what you don't want and will not accept, but do it real cute," he says. "You know, 'I like a man who does what he says he's going to do. If a man says he's going to be there at 7:00, he comes at 7:00.'"
A man may think you're telling him what you like, but really, you're telling him what you won't tolerate. "Then you find out what a man is willing to give of himself," Steve says. "You find out who the true guy is."