How do men feel about being adventurous and introducing some erotica, pole dancing or toys into the bedroom?
Before you start sliding down a pole, Steve cautions a woman to get to know a guy first. "If you break out a pole on the first date, that's going to be a bit much," he says. "You're going to pretty much have to be on that pole every night."
After you've known a man long enough, you can get a sense of how comfortable he'd be with other erotica. Do it in little increments to kind of get a feel. "Don't just drag a trunk into the middle of the bedroom," he says. "I would say introduce little toys. Plus, the toy that you introduce, please don't let it be bigger than him. You're going to lose the guy. We can't compete!"