If things get really heated, Dr. Berman recommends trying out KY Liquibeads, Touch Massage, and Yours + Mine products. The tried and true brand is great for couples, and the water- or oil-based lubricants can be used with your new toys! You can find Dr. Laura Berman Intimate Basics products on Amazon.com or Drugstore.com, or through Dr. Berman's website, BermanCenter.com.
Try one of Dr. Berman's scripts to talk to your partner about sex
Watch Dr. Berman's webcast with Oprah!