He kicked the cigarette habit, but you can’t. It’s a vicious cycle: You smoke, he complains, you fight, you stress, and then you need to smoke again. (Although correlation isn’t causation; there are other risk factors too.) A group at the Centre for Economic Policy Research in Australia found that smoking was not a very high risk factor in a marriage if both couples are smokers. But divorce rates increase significantly—76-95 percent higher—when only one spouse (especially the wife) has the habit. Quitting saves your (love) life.
Oprah Radio host Dr. Laura Berman talks about the benefits and downfalls of technology. It can keep you informed, but it also can create an unrealistic expectation of immediacy and intimacy.