1. All children need a plan. Parents, you are the safety expert for your family. It's your job to develop a plan your child can use.
2. Be specific. To get out of a dangerous situation it takes smart choices, not scared reactions. Scared reactions are predictable, and a kidnappers are looking for them. Come up with techniques that your child is comfortable with that teach them to not panic under pressure or when they're scared.
3. Don't equate stranger with danger. Teach your child how to recognize a potentially dangerous action instead of a potentially dangerous person.
For example: If your child is walking down the street and a person smiling and waving passes them in a car, that person is not dangerous. If the person gets out of the car and approaches your child, that is a dangerous action and your child can get away from it.
4. Focus on what your child can do. Giving your child a long list of what not to do will only confuse them. Ominous warnings don't fit their world.
For example: If an adult asks your child to help them look for a lost dog, your child sees this as a chance to do something good. Tell your child they have permission to look for the dog with an adult they already know.
5. "No" is more than a word, it's an action. Teach your child that they can say "no!" by running away, kicking and/or screaming. The action that goes along with the word is what will keep your child safe. Let your child know that if they are in a dangerous situation, saying "no" might mean being rude to an adult.