Martha Beck: The Relationship Two-Step

The Relationship Two-Step: How to Set Healthy Boundaries

It’s a dance—move too close, and you get your toes stepped on. Keep people at arm’s length, and you might lose contact entirely.

By Martha Beck
O, The Oprah Magazine | From the August 2006 issue of O, The Oprah Magazine

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Martha Beck on avoiding these common and unhealthy relationship dances.

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