Take some time this week to have a conversation about sex—outside of the bedroom and when you're not in the middle of getting busy! Focus on making it a productive discussion and not a performance review. Keep it even-keeled, non-defensive, comfortable and honest. Be open to feedback (positive and otherwise), and remember the goal is to reach a place of mutual pleasure.
If you need some more tips on how to talk about sex with your partner, try these conversation starters, excerpted from Dr. Berman's The Book of Love.
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